DO NO HARM, BUT TAKE NO SHIT - Rose Gold Clasp Bangle

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DO NO HARM, BUT TAKE NO SHIT - Rose Gold Clasp Bangle
DO NO HARM, BUT TAKE NO SHIT - Rose Gold Clasp Bangle

This one is for the people-pleasers, and the women who struggle to stand up for themselves.

Do No Harm, But Take No Shit.

I like to think of myself as a reformed people pleaser. But for the first 3 decades of my life? Not so much. I can’t even count the number of situations where someone has said something, done something or acted in a way that didn’t sit well with me.

For most of my life I’ve carried the belief that it’s more important to be “nice” and “liked” than to speak up about my own opinions and needs.

I put my own needs at the very bottom of the list, and operated as a dirt eater. It’s like I had a label on my head that said - “Oh, you want to kick dirt in my face? Go ahead! Do it! And then, with a mouth full of mud, I’ll apologise to you and make excuses for your behaviour.”

Oh man, and the excuses I made were endless.
“Maybe they didn’t mean it.”
“Maybe I’m reading it wrong.”
“Maybe they’re just having a really bad day.”
“I don’t know what’s going on in their life, this probably isn’t about me.”

And I know I’m not the only one guilty of this. I wonder how many women reading this are ‘putting up with’ situations for the fear of being disliked, or rocking the boat. Or wanting to please people rather than speak up about what’s important to them.

Well, consider this bangle a wake-up call. You deserve to be treated with respect. You have the right to say what is and isn’t okay with you. You don’t have to take shit from ANYONE. EVER. Like seriously, EVER. So, to my fellow people pleasers and dirt eaters. Now’s the time. Speak up, stand up and take no shit.

Do No Harm, But Take No Shit.

Quote from - Moïra Fowley-Doyle, Spellbook of the Lost and Found

  • long lasting gold plated stainless steel
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  • 63.7mm diameter when closed
DO NO HARM, BUT TAKE NO SHIT - Rose Gold Clasp Bangle
DO NO HARM, BUT TAKE NO SHIT - Rose Gold Clasp Bangle